What is one reason why victims may remain with an abuser?

Victims may remain with an abuser for various complex reasons, and one significant factor is religious restrictions. Many individuals may have strong ties to their faith and adhere to beliefs that emphasize the sanctity of marriage or partnerships, discouraging separation or divorce regardless of the circumstances, including abusive behavior. These religious convictions can lead victims to prioritize their commitment over their safety and well-being. In situations where faith plays a central role in an individual’s life, the fear of social ostracism, guilt, or shame associated with leaving an abuser can override the instinct to seek a healthier environment.

Factors such as financial independence, support from friends, and awareness of legal rights can influence a victim's situation differently. For instance, financial dependence might restrict the ability to leave an abuser, while support from friends could encourage separation. Awareness of legal rights can empower victims but may not be sufficient on its own to facilitate physical separation from an abuser when emotional, psychological, or spiritual factors are deeply interwoven in their decision-making process.